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  • The ‘mistake’ of receiving more than one unsolicited nude?
    He was ok with the gofundme, but wasn’t ok with you sending the gofundme to others?
    And you’re supposed to report everything to him but he doesn’t do the same for you?

    Your boyfriend is free to express his insecurities. And it wouldn’t be unreasonable for him to say that if you continue messaging strangers in that context, he won’t feel comfortable continuing the relationship.

    It’s perfectly normal to set boundaries and to get upset when your partner crosses them, but it sounds like he’s getting upset about you crossing boundaries which he never made clear.

    So not only are there unreasonable one-sided expectations, you’re also supposed to be a mind reader who knows what all of those expectations and boundaries are in advance.



  • Him ending the relationship because you saw a dick pic and have had sex multiple times in the past just shows his immaturity and lack of commitment.
    You didn’t cheat on him, you got sent a nude.
    It’s not like you were planning an affair.
    I bet he looks at porn all the time, would you break up with him for it?
    You don’t need to report every single thing that you do to him, does he honestly do the same for you?

    He’s either a stupid misogynist who holds you up to higher standards than he sets for himself, or he’s just looking for an ‘out’ to the relationship without taking any responsibility.
    He’d prefer to make you feel bad than to admit he doesn’t want to continue the relationship due to his personal beliefs.

    I don’t want to tell you who you should or shouldn’t date, but there are much more understanding people out there who will love you unconditionally.











  • Using a GPL library will require you to re-license your entire project as GPL, regardless of whether you made a change or not.

    LGPL is a bit better, because it allows you to dynamically link the library. But you’re required to provide a copy of source for the library, and any users must be able to swap the built library with their own copy.

    Eg; you can use an AGPL-licensed .dll in your closed-source windows program, because users can swap that .dll easily.

    You can’t do the same for a ps5 game because users aren’t able to replace any files that the game uses.


  • If you’re developing software for a platform that doesn’t allow users to replace dynamic libraries (game consoles, iOS, many embedded/commercial systems), you won’t be able to legally use any GPL or AGPL libraries.

    While I strongly agree with the motives behind copyleft licenses, I personally never use them because I’ve had many occasions where I was unable to use any available library for a specific task because they all had incompatible licenses.

    I release code for the sole purpose of allowing others to use it. I don’t want to impose any restrictions on my fellow developers, because I understand the struggle it can bring.

    Even for desktop programs, I prefer MIT or BSD because it allows others to take snippets of code without needing to re-license anything.

    Yes I understand that means anyone can make a closed-source fork, but that doesn’t bother me.
    If I wanted to sell it I might care, but I would have used a different license for a commercial project anyway.